These frequently asked questions are designed to be a useful resource for birth relatives of a child who may be adopted or are already adopted.
Frequently asked questions from birth families about adoption
No, once an adoption order is granted, all legal rights and responsibilities are transferred to the adoptive parents. Birth parents no longer have legal authority over the child but in most cases they may still be able to maintain a relationship through direct or indirect arrangements, where it is safe to do so
Most likely, no. Reclaiming parental rights after adoption is extremely rare. The legal process for adoption is designed to be final, and reversing it is exceptionally challenging and not common practice.
In England, staying in touch with your child is possible but this varies, depending upon the needs of your child. It is typically arranged through the adoption agency and the court. Discuss your wishes with the adoption agency and consider the best interests of the child when thinking about maintaining a relationship post-adoption. In many cases it’s beneficial to the child’s wellbeing to continue to stay in touch with their birth relatives but the specifics of the arrangement will need to be agreed with the child’s adoption agency and the adoptive parents.
In many cases, birth parents can have some input in the selection process, either directly or through the adoption agency. However, the final decision is often made by the adoption agency, considering the best interests of the child.
In England, it is encouraged to be open about adoption. Adoptive parents are usually advised to share age-appropriate information with the child about their adoption from an early age.
Staying in touch with your child after the adoption order has been agreed are likely to include updates or letters exchanged through the adoption agency. The level depends on the agreement reached between birth parents, adoptive parents and the agency’s involved and adoptive parents.
Yes, providing accurate medical information is crucial for the wellbeing of the child. This information is typically shared with adoptive parents and agency to ensure they are aware of any potential health concerns.
This is possible through agreements made with the agency. The terms and frequency of these arrangements can vary, and it is arranged in the best interests of the child. The adoption agency will be able to advise you on what agreement has been made.
Birth parents are not typically provided financial assistance after the adoption However, they may receive support and counselling services from the adoption agency or other specialist organisations such as PAC-UK or Family Rights Group. If they continue to see their child face to face then expenses may be reimbursed.
